The year is picking up speed already, we're half way through January and it's happened in the blink of an eye. I've really enjoyed my time at home, working in the sewing room and the workroom, but I don't have much to show for it. It's been a lot of leisurely sorting and rediscovery and thinking about how I could rearrange things a bit better. Once the year gathers momentum I rarely have time to potter about like that, so I'm enjoying it.
I've just returned from 5 days in Adelaide. Shonny and Hayden went off with the adults from his family on a no-kids weekend, and I baby-sat Isla and Thomas. It was fun, no dramas, and we did a few things that Mum and Dad would have frowned on, like getting out ALL the colours of Playdough instead of just 2 at a time. Thomas had to kick things up a notch by eating the pink playdough with a fork, despite me telling him not to. It was obvious from his face that it tasted dreadful, but he kept doing it, until he was banished to observer status. The next day he ate a handful of sand from the sandpit, and that was mayhem when it reappeared in his nappy. Kids!
Perhaps you recognise this scenario if you have a bossy child in your life. We were drawing, and Isla wanted me to draw a circle on her page.
" Please draw me a circle all round there." All sweetness and light.
" No, not like that, a Circle. Not there, I didn't want that. I need a circle. It doesn't match up, you need to make it join up!. No, it's not a circle anymore, it's not right!!!" And much sobbing ensued. I know I'm not much of an artist, but I did think that I could manage a circle. Apparently not. We patched things up, and I drew a flower and a butterfly that mollified her, and Thomas chewed the end off a crayon, and life went on.
She starts kindy in two weeks time, and then the world starts having a say in her life. I love having her all to myself, and being such a big part of her life. Soon she will be full of tales of her teachers and friends and new exploits; it's all a part of growing up, but I'll miss the little girl she was.
However, there's always Thomas, who is a juggernaut of risk and danger and daredevil adventure. Which is bad, because he's also extremely clumsy and accident prone and doesn't seem to learn from each disaster. And soon a new baby to add to the family. I don't think there will be much quiet time in the coming year, but that's OK. Being a good Nan to my babies is the important thing right now.